By Cecilia Kang
©2004 San Jose Mercury News
January 23, 2004
Anne Le left her high-tech marketing job to open a restaurant in Palo Alto
inspired by her parents' business. Chris and Peter Ho quit corporate jobs in New
York to follow in their uncle's footsteps and start a dry cleaning business in
Sunnyvale.
They were bred to achieve what their parents could not. But even with college
degrees and professional careers under their belts, these children of Asian
immigrants are returning to the same niche businesses their families entered
into as a first stop in America.
And in doing that, they are challenging a long-held economic model for upward
mobility among immigrants and redefining traditional notions of success.
"I felt that what I was doing wasn't for me because the company didn't belong
to me," said Le, who worked at Silicon Valley firms Netfish and Securify after
earning a bachelor's degree in history from Santa Clara University. "Now I am so
much happier every morning, knowing that I am going to a place that is mine."
It's not that Le, 28, didn't enjoy the perks of working at the fast-paced
start-ups. She frequently traveled to Hong Kong and New York on business. She
once orchestrated an elaborate marketing campaign -- complete with a marching
band in the French Quarter of New Orleans.
But ultimately, Le longed for something of her own.
Last year, she and an aunt opened Tamarine, an upscale nouveau Vietnamese
restaurant.
"It's a new wrinkle for Asian-American kids who are dealing with the reality
of employment in the mainstream and at the same time seeing opportunity in the
small businesses they've been raised in," said Don Nakanishi, director of the
Asian American Studies Center at the University of California-Los Angeles.
In a way, Le and others are returning to tradition. Used to be, owners of
businesses like the tofu and mochi shops in San Jose's Japantown expected their
children to take over. Those attitudes have changed in recent decades, with
family businesses viewed as a launching pad for immigrants to afford their
children better opportunities.
That's what concerned Anthony Le when his daughter, Anne, told him of her
plans.
Anthony Le and his wife, Nanh, envisioned a clear path for their three
children. They would take white-collar jobs, and education would be the key to
their success. The couple, who fled Vietnam in 1976, purposely gave their
children Westernized names beginning with the letter 'A' -- Anne, Angeline and
Andrew.
"I wanted their teachers to always call on them first," said Le, who helps
run the family's three Vung Tau restaurants in San Jose, Milpitas and Union
City.
Le, 51, didn't want Anne to work 12-hour days as he and his wife have since
they opened their first restaurant in 1984. He was proud when his daughter --
who was 2 years old when the family arrived in the United States -- graduated
from college. And even prouder when she began working at high-tech companies.
"I wanted Anne to be better than me," Le said.
But he also trusted her judgment and wanted to support her. He's introduced
her to Vung Tau's food suppliers. Nanh often stops by to suggest a deeper
tangerine flavor for meat or more basil for the fish.
"Slowly, parents are realizing that going to the top universities doesn't
necessarily guarantee anything," said Edward Chang, a professor of ethnic
studies at the University of California-Riverside. "And they are starting to see
that there should be more options and choices for the second generation."
It's difficult to say just how many Asian-Americans such as Le are entering
ethnic niche businesses. But there are scattered examples of the trend around
the Bay Area.
Membership at the Korean Dry Cleaners Association of Northern California is
up about 20 percent to 1,200 from three years ago. And about one-third of the
new members were raised in the United States and have college degrees and years
of professional working experience, according to its president, Jin Lee.
Vietnamese American Chamber of Commerce President H.G. Nguyen said she's seen
more children use the savvy they've acquired in large corporations to modernize
and expand their family businesses in recent years.
Still, some feel a strong need to leave family businesses behind. In a recent
UCLA study, three out of four Asian-American students surveyed said that their
parents wouldn't encourage their children to take over their businesses. And
only 4 percent of them said they plan to do so after graduation.
Chris and Peter Ho had comfortable salaries in their banking and marketing
jobs in New York. Chris Ho was rapidly rising through the ranks of the Bank of
Tokyo. She shared $2,000 bottles of wine with clients and was shuttled in
limousines between meetings.
But the couple worked long hours, often leaving home when their two daughters
were asleep and coming back when they were down again for the night. Then it
dawned on them that they were fulfilling career goals at the price of time with
their children.
Peter Ho remembers his then 3-month-old younger daughter bursting into tears
one day as they approached her day care center.
"I also started to cry because I knew she wanted to be with us and that it
just wasn't possible," said Ho, 45.
The San Francisco State University graduates returned to the Bay Area in 1997
and opened their dry cleaning business, a prominent venture among
Korean-Americans.
Today, Chris Ho works only four hours a day and the couple are making more
money than they did in their white-collar jobs. She gets to spend more time in
her role as mom, picking up their younger daughter from middle school every day
and shuttling her between meetings with friends and church youth group on
Fridays.
But Peter Ho still works long hours. He arrives at the dry cleaners at 6 a.m.
and leaves at 8 p.m. And though his parents supported his decision, Ho wouldn't
want his daughters to take over the family business.
"It's hot and smelly in the summer and you have to deal with people's filthy
clothing," he said. "She'll have more opportunities than me."